Managing Job-Related Stress

RESPONDING or REACTING Under Pressure: Which Do You Do?

The very first moment you’re confronted with a challenging situation – that very first instant of recognition – presents a potent but rarely appreciated opportunity to orient yourself in a more effective way than you otherwise might.

Whether it’s a relatively minor challenge such as another interruption from an important-but-prickly client, or a major challenge such as the defection of a key partner or referral source, the second the event hits your consciousness, you can either REACT to it, or RESPOND to it.

This inflection point can influence what happens from the very first seconds and minutes all the way …

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Desk Yoga for Busy Lawyers = More Energy, Less Stress

To perform at your best, whether you’re on trial, drafting an important document under pressure, or interacting with clients and staff, you need have as much energy as possible throughout the day — both mentally and physically.

Think about it: your blood and brain need the right amount of oxygen for you to function at your best. But stress causes your breath to become shallower and your muscles to contract, thereby inhibiting proper oxygenation.

While there’s no single strategy for completely preventing fatigue, headaches and backaches (or other aches and pains), there IS a powerful, fast and free technique for …

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The Calendaring Technique That Improves Your Life

Do you trust your daily calendar to help you manage your day effectively? Many attorneys don’t.  Often there’s just not enough information in the item entry to plan properly. Or they think that crunch-booking will let them get more done. Some are so used to seeing back-to-back appointments without prep or travel time that they’ve come to accept as normal the constant mental juggling and increased stress that results from that unreliability.

Fortunately, there’s an easy two-step technique that can result in dramatically improved time management. We call it “scheduling the whole event.”

Step One: when entering an item in your …

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The “Success” Behaviors You Should STOP Doing Today

Successful people take action, right?  Leaders apply certain principals to get results.  Top performers do certain things to rise above the pack.  Successful law firm leaders tend to excel at rainmaking and/or practice management.

Indeed, when we think about successful people, we naturally think about the things they do that lead to their success.  They work hard, they stay focused, they constantly develop their knowledge and skills.

Furthermore, high achievers typically also hold beliefs about themselves that are equally important to their success.  For example, they trust themselves to assess a situation accurately and to exercise authority firmly.  As …

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High-Achiever? Stop Beating Yourself Up

Much has been written about “the lawyer personality” and “the lawyer mind” – about how they’re more analytical, more introverted than the general population.  Here’s one quality of many attorneys that’s a real double-edged sword.

“Locus of control” (LOC) refers to our basic belief about whether the outcomes of our actions are contingent on what we do (internal control) or on events outside our influence (external control).

At one of end of the spectrum, individuals with a strong external locus of control orientation believe that their experience is due to fate, luck, or other external circumstances, while individuals with a …

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How to Keep Things In Perspective At Work

It’s too easy to get hooked by stress and worry – particularly when our experience of the stress and worry is (or seems) justified by the high stakes matter or financial pressure at hand.  It’s all too easy to forget, in the midst of our daily work, why it is that we’re working so hard.  Indeed, most of us go far too long between bouts of appreciativeness.

So why are we working so hard?  Partly for the healthy ego gratification, sure.  And largely for the money, of course.  But the money is a means to an end; that end …

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